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追女孩子就像钓鱼

【摘要】追女孩就像是在钓鱼(仅供男生参考)所谓工欲善其事,必先利其器。男生好比一个钓鱼者,自身装备也要准备好,鱼竿呀(好比你的长相条件呀)、鱼线呀(好比你的经济条件啦)、浮标呀(其他的...

    追女孩就像是在钓鱼(仅供男生参考)



    所谓工欲善其事,必先利其器。男生好比一个钓鱼者,自身装备也要准备好,鱼竿呀(好比你的长相条件呀)、鱼线呀(好比你的经济条件啦)、浮标呀(其他的条件)这里说的代表你的自身条件哦。



    一。长相条件经济条件都比较好的



    如果你已经选好地点的话,条件比较好的,先对你的鱼儿进行一次大面积的撒铒,就好比你对目标做一下面积广的全方位调查,喜欢什么啦,爱好什么啦,等等滴。等你调查的差不多啦,就可以对你的目标下竿啦,选择她最喜欢的铒食,也就是她喜欢什么东西呀,送过去一些礼物呀,如果很有钱的话,买一点贵的也不妨事,最重要的是要有新鲜感,别去买一些司空见惯的东西,要有特殊型的,不管是什么东西,一眼就可以被吸引的,有钱就买一些她没见过没用过没吃过的东西,这样会让她觉得你这个人常常能给她带来惊喜。如果鱼儿对你的鱼饵轻触了一下,这时候你的鱼就八成要上钩啦,这时候就不需要顺着鱼的方向进行迂回战术,直接拉上来就好(也就是说在你表达真挚的感情就不用再去拐弯抹角的啦,要的就是直接),如果鱼钩很好(也就是说你表白时候的技巧够硬,结果一定会如你所愿)鱼儿就会很情愿的上钩啦。



    二。长相条件一般经济条件一般的



    长相一般经济也一般的,这个时候就要有双保险啦,钓鱼时就要用到两把鱼竿啦,一把长鱼竿备用,一把短鱼竿钓鱼,在钓鱼之前的大面积撒铒这是必不可少的,铒的面积够大,鱼儿具体的习性和方位也就越准。对于长相一般经济也一般的,就要先用短鱼竿先来进行,步骤基本差不多,选取饵料(也就是礼物呀什么滴)送礼物是表达心意的好办法,对于经济一般的来说饵料要选的比较物美价廉,比较间接的买礼物,即能起到作用又不用花大钱,打个比喻哦,如果她比较喜欢吃果冻,第一次送东西就不用买果冻啦,买别的,那也不能买她不喜欢的东西,差不多的就行,取中间偏上的,送过去以后,她要是说我不是特别喜欢吃这个,喜欢什么什么滴,这要再按照她的喜好来,这样嘛,可以让你在她心里有一种突然来袭的感觉,送东西比较突然,让她没有心理准备,虽说东西不是她喜欢的,但是如果第一次就接礼物啦,她一定会对你有一点感觉,下一次买她喜欢的就更有把握啦,如果第一次中等喜好程度的礼物没接,是对你的突然感到莫名,会用一种自我保护的心里来武装自己。试探一下你的企图,第二次在送很喜欢的礼物可能就会让对方觉得你有追她的企图啦,反正总结一句话,只要你第一次送给她礼物,她接受啦,就是给你机会啦,一定要物美价廉,不能铺张浪费,这样就不好啦。短鱼竿是你用来试探一下你的目标的,鱼竿短钓上来的机会也就会小,所以只是试探,铒食不用过于精美。如果短鱼竿的效果比较理想,你就可以用长鱼竿啦,也就是说要通过比较长一点大的时间,和自身的执着来打动啦,长的鱼竿鱼线比较长,这样你和她之间空间就会比较广,也就是说要慢慢的去接触她,从点点滴滴开始,关心,帮助,照顾,等等滴,时间长啦,不用太过于着急,时机成熟也就是她对你也是一样的时候,就可以钓上来啦,



    三、各方面的条件都不是很好的。



    对于各方面的条件都不是很好的,那就更需要更长的鱼竿啦,时间就是你的好鱼饵。试探也是必不可少的,经济不是很好的,就不需要送太好的礼物啦,这会的礼物一定要物美还不要钱的那种,不用是什么样的好吃的好玩的,也许可以是你做的东西,自己做的东西可以让人有一种珍惜感,是用钱买不到的那种,小东西可是有大作用的,往往比较贵重的东西就会比较俗气,还是一些比较有心意的。决心对于你来说也很重要,条件不好,决心就要重,就好比要有孤舟蓑笠翁,独钓寒江雪的境界。小细节也必须有,对于一个喜欢的人来说,小小的帮助和照顾关心,也一样会有效果的。



    总结一下。



    岸边水浅,觅食的一般是一些小鱼儿,而大鱼呢,则活动于深水区,她们也不屑与小鱼儿为伴,因此想钓上大鱼,就要用上牢固长杆长线,把线扔得越远越好;大鱼经验相对丰富,不会轻易上钩,她们警惕性很高,只有反复试探,确信没问题的时候才会吃鱼饵;同样,女孩都是宝,对陌生人她们会本能的保护自己,所以追女孩子要有耐心,并要懂得适时展示自己,让女孩了解你,接近你,甚至不知不觉中爱上你。不能急于求成,见着女孩就说我爱你,女孩会害羞,甚至会怀疑你是不是玩弄她,即使她答应了,接受你的爱,她也需要一个调整适应期,她会发现她已不再是她了,心跳加快,连吃饭的时候也会恍惚;如果一个女孩拒绝你了,她根本就不想和你交往,你也不要勉强,更不能自暴自弃,一蹶不振,要有一种“天涯何处无芳草”的自信;当然,女孩更喜欢那些执着的人,男人应该不放弃,不退缩,用真心和行动打动对方;有时候放弃也是一种爱,也许她认为现在时机还不成熟,也许其它,如果你真的爱她,那你就得忍住寂寞,默默地等待哪天的到来!再奉劝大家一句,千万不要做“姜太公钓鱼愿者上钩”的人,自己不付出,等着鱼儿游到你的身边,你只需要去捞上来,那感情一定是不坚固的,追求的过程有时候会很漫长,但是其中感情也是比较坚固的,了解对方更多,对双方都是一种机会,更加了解,在一起以后也就更可以很美好的相处。没有钓到鱼的人要更加努力的去发掘和努力,钓到鱼的人要更加好好的对你宝贝的鱼儿。


Chasing a girl is like fishing



To do a good job, you must sharpen your tools. A boy is like a fisherman. He should prepare his own equipment, such as fishing rod (such as your appearance condition), fishing line (such as your economic condition), buoy (other conditions), which represents your own conditions.



one Looks condition economic condition is relatively good



If you already have a good location, do an extensive erbium survey of your fish, just as you do a comprehensive survey of your target's preferences, hobbies, etc. Waiting for you to investigate almost, can under the rod to your target, select one of her favorite erbium food, what is she like ah, in the past some gift ah, if a lot of money, buy a little expensive also might as well, the most important thing is to have a fresh, don't go to buy some commonplace things, want to have special type, no matter what thing, can be attracted at the first sight, If you have money, buy something she hasn't seen, used or eaten. This will show her that you are a person who can always surprise her. If a light touch on the bait fish for you, then you will be eighty percent to rise to the bait fish, do not need to follow the direction of the fish at this time of circuitous tactics, pulled directly (that is expressed in your true feelings don't have to go to beat around the bush, want is directly), if the hook is very good, that is to say, the technique of you when I love you hard enough, The fish will be willing to take the bait.



two Appearance condition is general economic condition is general



Looks general economy is also general, this time there will be double insurance, fishing will use two fishing rods, a long fishing rod spare, a short fishing rod fishing, before fishing the large area of erbium this is essential, erbium area is big enough, the specific habits and orientation of the fish will be more accurate. For average economy is generally, will use short rod for first, first step basic same, select bait (that is, what gift ah drops) gifts is a good way to express his mind, for general economic bait to choose more cheaper, more indirect buy gifts, which can play a role and you don't have to spend a lot of money, make a metaphor, If she is more like to eat jelly, for the first time to send things you don't have to buy jelly, buy something else, that also can not buy the things she doesn't like, just the same, in the middle and upper, send in the past, she said if I don't particularly like to eat this, like what, this is again the be fond of according to her, such, can let you in her heart has a feeling of suddenly struck, Send a thing all of a sudden, let her unprepared, although things are not what she like, but if for the first time took the gift, she will have a little feeling for you, the next time she likes to buy will be more sure, if the first medium degree of be fond of of present didn't answer, is suddenly feel strange to you, will use a protective to arm themselves in their hearts. Test your attempt, the second time in the gift you like may make the other party think you have an attempt to chase her, anyway in a word, as long as you give her a gift for the first time, she accepted, is to give you an opportunity, must be inexpensive, do not waste, it is not good. Short fishing rod is used to test your target, short fishing rod will be less chance to catch, so just test, erbier food need not be too delicate. If short rod effect is more ideal, you can use the long rod, that is to go through a relatively long period of big, and its own dedicated to impress, long rod line is longer, the space between you and she will be more widely, that is to say, to slowly to touch her, begin from dribs and drabs, care, help and care, and so on, a long time, Don't worry too much, when the time is right and she will do the same to you, you can catch it,



Third, the conditions in all aspects are not very good.



For all the conditions are not very good, then need a longer rod, time is your good bait. Test is indispensable, the economy is not very good, don't need too good gift, this gift must be good also don't money of that kind of, need not what is good fun, may be things you do, do your own thing can let a person there is a feeling of value, is money can't buy the sort of, small but has a bigger role, Often more expensive things will be more tacky, or some more thoughtful. Determination is also very important for you. If conditions are not good, determination should be heavy, just like having a boat or suoliweng fishing alone in the state of cold river or snow. Little things have to be there, too. For a loved one, a little help and caring will go a long way.



To sum up.



The shore water is shallow, foraging is generally some small fish, and the big fish, activities in deep water, they also disdain with small fish as partners, so want to catch the big fish, it is necessary to use a strong long rod long line, throw the line as far as possible; Big fish experience is relatively rich, not easily hooked, they are very alert, only repeated testing, sure that no problem when they will eat bait; Similarly, girls are precious, and they will protect themselves instinctively to strangers, so you should be patient when chasing girls, and know how to show yourself at the right time, so that girls know you, close to you, and even unconsciously fall in love with you. Can not be eager to achieve, see the girl said I love you, the girl will be shy, and even doubt that you are not playing with her, even if she agreed to accept your love, she also needs an adjustment to adapt to the period, she will find that she is no longer her heart rate, even when eating will be trance; If a girl rejected you, she does not want to associate with you, you do not reluctantly, more can not give up, unable to recover after a fall, to have a "there is no fish in the sea" confidence; Of course, girls prefer those persistent people, men should not give up, do not retreat, with sincerity and action to move each other; Sometimes give up is also a kind of love, maybe she thinks the time is not mature now, maybe other, if you really love her, then you have to endure loneliness, silently waiting for the arrival of which day! To advise you, don't do "trolls the person", they don't pay, waiting for the fish to swim to your side, you only need to go up, that feelings must be not strong, the pursuit of the process of sometimes is long, but the affection is also relatively strong, know more about each other, would be an opportunity to both, more understanding, After being together, we can get along better. Did not catch the fish to work harder to dig and work hard, catch the fish to be more good to your baby fish.

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