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让男人动真心,善待她一生的:“钓鱼法则”

【摘要】爱情就像是一本引人入胜的故事书,每一个情节都吸引着男人和女人不断地翻阅,而让人捉摸不透的结局更给爱情带来了一种神秘感。大自然中存在着一定的生存法则,而在感情中也是一样,并不是随...

    爱情就像是一本引人入胜的故事书,每一个情节都吸引着男人和女人不断地翻阅,而让人捉摸不透的结局更给爱情带来了一种神秘感。



    大自然中存在着一定的生存法则,而在感情中也是一样,并不是随心所欲地去经营两个人之间的感情,就能够琴瑟和鸣,举案齐眉。



    女人若希望男人对她付出真心,善待她一生,必须要学会“钓鱼法则”,在感情中用一点小小的心机,将爱情牢牢地掌握在自己的手中。



    “钓鱼法则”:需要自身有资本,但是又不一次性给予对方太多。



    在感情的最开始,女人不要把自己的爱全盘托出,若是让男人一眼便看穿了自己,那么往后他便再也没有了继续探索下去的欲望。



    爱一个人越深,越要保持一定的理智,给自己一些清醒的时间来面对两个人之间的感情,不要在冲动的情绪下做出任何的决定。



    同时也要给对方一些空间,引起他对女人世界的好奇,也能更好地试探出他的心意,当女人自身的魅力和吸引力足够大的时候,男人会想要全天守候在女人的身边。



    女人让男人动真心,善待她一生的手段:学会“钓鱼法则”。



    学会自身拥有资本,提升吸引力。



    “钓鱼”得自己有资本,有吸引力。独立而有自我的女人,更容易吸引男人的注意力。



    不同的鱼会喜欢不同的饵料,虽然古有姜太公钓鱼,愿者上钩,但是现在,如果想让一个男人对自己另眼相看,就一定要在“饵料”上下功夫。



    女人首先要抓住男人的眼球,才能有一个美丽的开始,可以是精致的妆容,得体的装扮,或者是在为人处世上让人感觉愉悦。



    引起了男人的注意之后,女人出众的气质,以及从容的举止,都会为自己加分,让男人对自己的印象越来越好。



    还记得《欢乐颂》中有这样一个片段,安迪出现在一个高档会所,里面有无数名媛争奇斗艳。小包总走进来之后,一眼就被安迪所吸引,并且深深印在脑海,放在心上不能自拔,爱情要的就是这种感觉。



    其次,女人要在生活中不断的学习,不断的提升自己,当对方抛出一个话题的时候,女人能够有自己独特的见解,会让男人感觉找到了人生中的知己。



    两个人之间的共同语言,和女人自己的想法与主见,会让男人刮目相看,会对女人产生越来越浓厚的兴趣。



    让爱情绽放,女人需要学会“冷”。



    恋爱中的“钓鱼法则”,得学会扔绳子,收线。感情,需要有松有紧。



    真正懂得钓鱼的人会明白,如果咬钩的是一条大鱼,生拉硬拽有可能让鱼挣脱逃走,而且自己也会因为它的离去而站不稳脚跟,甚至受到伤害。



    所以,不要着急,经营一段感情,就像煲汤,要大火烧开之后,转入小火慢炖的阶段。



    女人在感情中不要跟得太紧,不要总是踩着他的影子去追逐,而是慢慢地收紧自己手中的线,调整两个人之间的距离。不要让他在自己的心里肆无忌惮,也不要放得太开,让他对未来没有任何希望。



    《甄嬛传》中甄嬛重新获得皇帝宠爱,但是不让他留宿,让皇帝心痒难耐但是又无可奈何,发出这样的感叹:“偌大一个皇宫,只有小小的碎玉轩去不得!”当时机到了的时候,甄嬛让皇帝接近自己,两个人重续旧缘,最后得到了皇帝的盛宠。



    这样的方式才能让男人感受到两个人之间的故事有跌宕起伏,会更加珍惜这段失而复得的情意。



    选择适当的时机,冷一冷,让他明白,自己对于这份感情是真的动了心,让他知道失去的滋味,然后再体会到和女人在一起的美好,那么,这种爱会更深刻,会让他更欲罢不能。



    让男人动真心,得吸引他付出。



    恋爱中的“钓鱼法则”,女人需要学会引导男人付出,让他主动“咬食”。



    如果男人在女人面前始终保持着观望的态度,那么,女人也可以适当地制造一些紧张的气氛让他产生危机感,推动着他往前迈进。



    要让他知道,如果他不努力,不主动付出,女人不会一直在原地等待,感情也会随风而逝。



    这个时候,男人会像是热锅上的蚂蚁,会有很大的焦灼感,同时他也会很快懂得自己的心,明白未来的日子里,他不能失去的是身边的女人。



    男人会因为害怕失去,而用尽所有的方法来靠近女人,呵护女人,希望自己能够成为女人的唯一依靠。



    不管是男人在生活中的关心,还是在感情中的守护,都是他在为两个人的爱情而不断努力,也是在期待着最美好的结局。



    女人在男人的付出以及态度中会渐渐看清楚他的心,这个时候,女人也要适当地给男人安全感和回应,两个人之间形成互相关爱的良性循环之后,感情才会越来越深。



    在一段感情中,需要用智慧经营,也需要两个人用真心互相配合和合作。



    女人对感情会有很多期待,也会希望自己和男人发生一些惊天地泣鬼神,轰轰烈烈的爱情故事。



    可是每一个故事,都需要两个人用心去经营,在希望有一个男人可以真心爱自己的同时,也要找对正确的经营方式,能够摆正对待爱情和婚姻的态度,才能慢慢的实现。



    女人要做一本最具神秘感的故事书,最好是像洋葱那样,一层一层剥下去,泪流满面也不一定能够找到自己想要的答案。



    让男人一直到最后才发现寻找的过程都是爱,他会发现原来自己最重视的,并不是最终的那个结局,而是携手和女人走过的这一生。



    女人要明白自己在爱情中想要的是什么,同时也不能因为爱情而忽略了对自己人生目标的追求,把重心放在自己身上,才能在感情中有更多的保障。



    不要期待着用自己的付出来换取对方的回应,这是最被动的方式,女人要掌握主动权,紧紧地把握住感情的发展方向。



    女人用智慧经营爱情,才不会让彼此的新鲜感过去之后,又恢复到孤孤单单一个人的状态,爱,一直都存在于彼此的世界。



    爱和被爱,都是有一定的平衡点,掌握好,才能更好地守护幸福。


Love is like a fascinating story book, every plot attracts men and women to turn over, and the elusive ending brings a sense of mystery to love.



There are certain survival rules in nature, and it is the same in feelings. It is not possible to operate the feelings between two people at will.



If a woman wants a man to pay her sincere, treat her life, must learn to "fishing law", in the feelings with a little scheming, will love firmly in their hands.



The "fishing rule" : You need to have capital, but don't give too much at once.



At the beginning of the relationship, a woman should not tell her love completely, if a man can see through himself at a glance, then he will no longer continue to explore the desire.



The deeper you love someone, the more you should keep a certain sense, give yourself some sober time to face the feelings between two people, don't make any decisions in the emotional impulse.



At the same time, give him some space to arouse his curiosity about the woman's world, but also to better test his mind, when the woman's own charm and attraction is big enough, a man will want to wait around her full-time.



A woman lets a man move sincere, treat her life's means: learn "fishing law".



Learn to own your own capital and increase your attractiveness.



"Fishing" to have their own capital, attractive. Women who are independent and have an ego are more likely to attract men's attention.



Different fish will like different bait, although in ancient times there was Jiang Taigong fishing, willing to bait, but now, if you want to let a man look at yourself differently, you must work hard on "bait".



A woman has to catch a man's eye first to get off to a good start, whether it's fine makeup, dressing up, or making people feel good about themselves.



After attracting the attention of a man, a woman's outstanding temperament, as well as calm demeanor, will add points for themselves, so that men's impression of themselves is getting better and better.



Remember the scene in "Ode to Joy" where Andy shows up at an upscale club where countless socialites are fighting it out. Bao always walked in and was attracted to Andy at a glance, and was deeply impressed in my mind and in my heart. That's what love is about.



Secondly, women should continue to learn and improve themselves in life. When the other side throws out a topic, women can have their own unique opinions, which will make men feel that they have found a friend in life.



The common language between two people, and the woman's own ideas and opinions, will make men sit up and take an interest in a woman.



For love to blossom, a woman needs to learn to be cold.



The "rule of fishing" in love is to learn to throw the rope and reel in the line. Relationships need to be loose and tight.



Anyone who really knows how to fish will know that if the fish you are biting is a big fish, you may let the fish break free and run away, and you will not be able to stand on your feet or even be hurt by its departure.



So, don't worry, running a relationship is like cooking soup, after a big fire to boil, into a small fire simmer stage.



Women in the relationship do not follow too closely, do not always step on his shadow to chase, but slowly tighten their own hands of the line, adjust the distance between the two people. Don't let him run wild in his own heart, and don't let him so wide that he has no hope for the future.



In the Legend of Zhen Huan, Zhen wins the favor of the emperor again, but doesn't let him stay in the palace, which makes the emperor feel itched but helpless: "In such a big palace, only the small broken jade xuan can't go there." When the time comes, Zhen huan lets the emperor get close to her, and the two renew their old relationship and win the emperor's favor.



In this way, the man can feel the ups and downs of the story between two people, and will cherish the feeling of this lost and recovered.



Choose the appropriate time, a cold, let him understand, his feelings for this is really moved the heart, let him know the taste of loss, and then realize the beauty of women together, so, this love will be more profound, will let him more unable to stop.



To get a man's heart, you gotta get him to give.



Love in the "fishing law", women need to learn to guide men to pay, let him take the initiative to "bite".



If a man always keeps a wait-and-see attitude in front of a woman, then a woman can appropriately create some tension to make him feel a sense of crisis and push him forward.



Let him know that if he doesn't put in the effort and make the effort, she won't stay put and the relationship will go away.



At this time, a man will be like an ant on hot pot, there will be a great sense of anxiety, at the same time, he will quickly understand his own heart, understand that in the future, he can not lose the woman around.



Men will be afraid of losing, and use all methods to get close to women, care for women, hoping that they can become the only woman to rely on.



Whether the man in life care, or in the feelings of the guard, he is in the love of two people and constantly strive, but also looking forward to the best ending.



A woman will gradually see his heart clearly in a man's pay and attitude. At this time, a woman should give a man a sense of security and response appropriately. After a virtuous circle of mutual care is formed between two people, the feelings will become deeper and deeper.



In a relationship, need to use wisdom to manage, also need two people with sincere cooperation and cooperation.



Women have a lot of expectations for relationships, and they also want to have some amazing and powerful love stories with men.



But each story, need two people to manage attentively, in the hope of a man can truly love their own at the same time, but also to find the right way of management, can straighten out the attitude towards love and marriage, to slowly achieve.



Women want to make a most mysterious story book, it is best to be like an onion, a layer of peeling down, tears may not be able to find the answer they want.



Let a man until the last to find the search process is love, he will find that his most important, not the final outcome, but hand in hand and woman through this life.



Women should understand what they want in love, and at the same time, they should not ignore the pursuit of their own goals in life because of love. Only by focusing on themselves, can they have more security in the relationship.



Do not expect to use their own pay in exchange for the response of the other side, this is the most passive way, women should grasp the initiative, tightly grasp the direction of the relationship.



Women use wisdom to manage love, will not let each other after the novelty of the past, and return to the state of a lonely person, love, has always existed in each other's world.



Love and be loved, there is a certain balance point, master, to better protect happiness.

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