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爱情就像钓鱼!懂了让Ta倒追

【摘要】问你一个问题啊,想要钓到鱼,第一步是干什么呢?答案是:找到一个鱼很多的池塘。如果眼前的池塘里没有鱼,你有再高的钓鱼技术都没有用,换句话说,如果走到一个鱼很多的池塘,即使技术差一...

    问你一个问题啊,想要钓到鱼,第一步是干什么呢?答案是:找到一个鱼很多的池塘。如果眼前的池塘里没有鱼,你有再高的钓鱼技术都没有用,换句话说,如果走到一个鱼很多的池塘,即使技术差一点,也一样能够钓到鱼。



    获得爱情的原理,和钓鱼一模一样,如果你现在的圈子中缺少男人,没有目标出没,那么,再厉害的撩技也无用武之地。再打一个比方吧,当天空中有足够多大雁的时候,你闭着眼睛射一箭也有命中一只的可能,相反,一个神枪手也不能在空空如也的草原上猎到一只兔子。



    想要拥有一个好男人,第一步,去一些优质男多的圈子。爱情赢家所具备的基础神技就是:总是能够发现并进入优秀汉子聚集的地方。别小看这个能力,在汉子扎堆而妹子稀缺的群体中,再普通的姑娘能够牵手俊男帅哥。



    推荐进入一个学习型的圈子,比如,报一个英语口语学习班,每周一三五或二四六晚上去学习的那种。或者,干脆考一个MBA,周末上课的那种,拿个硕士学位的同时,认识一些优质的男人。我有认识几位女生,她们就是通过这种学习的方式找到如意郎君的。



    在课堂上,大家是同学关系,相对于职场而言,要单纯很多,容易建立起感情,而且,会在工作后还热衷学习的男生,至少具备两个特质:1。有上进心,否则不会在工作之余抽时间去进修;2。不穷,否则不会花这个钱。恰恰这两个特质,对挑选爱情对象来说,都挺重要的,尤其是,如果你打算和他进入婚姻的话。



    除了传统的学习场合,现在还有很多学习型社群,比如各种读书会,一群人以兴趣为导向聚集在一起,在那里,同频的人多,较容易遇见真爱。总而言之,言而总之,绝对不能宅在家里,绝对不能只在公司,绝对不能只在没有合适目标的地方!



    很多好女孩,一辈子没遇到真爱,不是真爱难找,而是她所在的圈子,连男人都不多!更别说好男人了!在没有优质男的圈子里,就是等上一百年,也不会遇见自己的真命天子。


Let me ask you a question. What's the first step in catching a fish? The answer is: find a pond full of fish. If there are no fish in the pond in front of you, it doesn't matter how skillful you are. In other words, if you walk into a pond full of fish, even if you are not skillful, you can still catch fish.



The principle of love, and fishing is the same, if you lack men in the circle, there is no target haunt, then, no matter how powerful flirting is useless. To take another analogy, if there are enough geese in the air, you can shoot an arrow with your eyes closed and hit one. Conversely, a sharpshooter can't hunt a rabbit on an empty prairie.



The first step to having a good man is to go to a group of good men. The basic magic of a love winner is always being able to find and enter places where the best men are. Don't underestimate this ability, in a group of men and women are scarce, even ordinary girls can hold hands handsome men.



I recommend getting into a learning community, for example, signing up for an Oral English class every Monday, Wednesday, Friday, or Tuesday, Thursday evening. Or, get an MBA, one of those weekend classes, get a master's degree and meet some great men. I know several women who have found Mr. Right through this way of learning.



In class, we are classmates. Compared with the workplace, it is much simpler and easier to establish relationships. Moreover, boys who are keen on learning after work have at least two characteristics: 1. Self-motivated, otherwise will not spare time to study in spare time; 2. Not poor, or they wouldn't spend the money. Both of these qualities are important in choosing a romantic partner, especially if you're going to marry him.



In addition to traditional learning occasions, there are also many learning communities, such as reading clubs, where groups of people gather together based on interests. There are many people in the same frequency, so it is easier to meet true love. All in all, never stay at home, never stay at work, never stay in a place where there is no suitable target!



Many good girls, life did not meet true love, not true love is hard to find, but her circle, even men are few! Let alone a good man! In a world where there are no good guys, you can wait a hundred years, and you won't meet Mr. Right.

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