1. 首页
  2. 挽回爱情秘籍

传统男对老婆不讲理的表现

【摘要】夫妻之间常互称“老公、“老婆,含有“相濡以沫、恩爱长久的愿望。现阶段若实现这一愿望,诚心过好日子必须做到:平等,尊重,宽容,理解,共赏五大原则。而一些思想比较传统、守旧的男人对老婆常有五大不讲理的要求。一、老婆就应该做饭洗衣带孩子。受传统保守思想后遗症的影响,以及大男子主义做祟,“男主外,女主内是天经地义的事情,女性包揽家务的观念在中国人心中有很深的基础。即使看着老婆忙里忙外,自己品茶看报悠闲,并不会觉...

  夫妻之间常互称“老公、“老婆,含有“相濡以沫、恩爱长久的愿望。现阶段若实现这一愿望,诚心过好日子必须做到:平等,尊重,宽容,理解,共赏五大原则。而一些思想比较传统、守旧的男人对老婆常有五大不讲理的要求。

  一、老婆就应该做饭洗衣带孩子。

  受传统保守思想后遗症的影响,以及大男子主义做祟,“男主外,女主内是天经地义的事情,女性包揽家务的观念在中国人心中有很深的基础。即使看着老婆忙里忙外,自己品茶看报悠闲,并不会觉得有点愧疚,反之心安理得。饭来张口,衣来伸手。

  二、老婆就应该我让干啥就干啥。

  男女都是历史文明的缔造者,然而女人的地位除了母系社会时期以外,一直处于低下。中国古代妇女更是受“三从四德束缚,三从是“未嫁从父,既嫁从夫,夫死从子;四德是“妇德、妇言、妇容、妇工.当前女性地位的确提高了,要求男人上“三从四德也有了新的含义:何为“三从?就是“服从,听从,跟从;“四德?就是“生日要记得,心思要懂得,花钱要舍得,挨打要忍得.但一种根深蒂固影响是潜移默化的,即使表层上有所改良,实质上消亡仍然需要一个漫长的认识过程,现在还是过渡期。老婆是泄欲的工具,家务的机器,都是一种不平等不尊重的表现,如:不考虑对方是否同意,强行要求,月经期也要硬着干等。

  三、老婆就应该什么事情也告诉我。

  老婆做什么事情都得向我汇报,朋友请客送了多少礼,去娘家提了那些东西,买衣服花费多少,生活中谁说什么等,必须控制自由,决不能隐瞒。老婆就应该没有秘密,生活中最多只能是出纳,会计别想担任。做了错事,想骂就骂,想打就打。

  四、老婆就应该是终生守贞节守寡。

  老婆就应该是处女,就应该心里只有一人,不许想入非非,更不能出轨偷腥。与男同事讲话不能大笑,还要保持距离,不能单独聊天,不可说色情话。男人早死后不准改嫁,要守活寡,侍候老人,抚养孩子。

  五、老婆就应该只顾婆家不管娘家。

  嫁出去的女儿泼出去的水。在封建社会男尊女卑,女儿出嫁以后与娘家就没有任何关系了,与娘家的家产也没有关系了,就不再是娘家的人了,嫁鸡随鸡嫁狗随狗。女人从过门的那一刻,就不能去管娘家的事儿,否则吃里爬外。

  在今天80后、90后中,传统的男人虽不太多,但旧思想仍然存在着很大影响,正确认识陋习对于建立和谐婚姻有着重要的意义。人与人交往最起码的三个原则“平等,尊重,宽容,其实在夫妻生活如何得当运用并非易事,努力就有希望,加油!毕竟社会在进步,文明在发展,有些事情只是暂时没有转弯,略微思索就会茅塞顿开。

Constant each other calls “ husband, “ wife between husband and wife, contain “ photograph to immerse with the desire with foam, long conjugal love. If realize this one desire,show level, sincere desire crosses wedding day to must accomplish: Equal, esteem, good-tempered, understand, admire 5 big principles in all. And the man with a few more traditional, conservative thoughts often has demand of 5 big brutal to wife.

One, wife should cook wash clothes look after children.

Suffer the effect of sequela of traditional and conservative thought, and old man creed makes evil spirit, “ male advocate outside, female advocate inside the thing that is perfectly justified, the female undertakes the whole thing household idea has very deep base in Chinese heart. Although look at wife busy in busy outside, oneself taste tea to read a newspaper carefree, can not feel ashamed having a place remorses, conversely feel at ease and justified. The meal comes dehisce, the clothes will stretch one's hand.

2, wife should I let do what to do what.

The men and women is the founder of historical culture, however feminine position besides maternal society period, be in all the time low. Woman of Chinese ancient time is to suffer “ more 3 manacle from 4 heart, 3 from it is “ was not married from father, marry already from the husband, the husband is dead from child 4 heart of; are labour of look of character of “ Fu heart, Fu, Fu, Fu. Current woman place rose really, the “ on requirement man 3 also have new meaning from 4 heart: He Wei “ 3 from? It is “ obedience, comply with, with from;“ 4 heart? It is “ birthday should remember, idea wants to know, beautiful money wants be willing to part with or use, take a beating should bear. But a kind of confirmed influence is exert a subtle influence on, although reform somewhat on surface layer, substantial die out still needs a lengthy understanding process, still transfer now period. Wife is the tool of discharge desire, household machine, it is a kind of imparity not valued expression, be like: Take no account of the other side to whether agree, ask forcibly, menses also wants strong move to work etc.

3, wife should what thing also tells me.

Wife does what thing to must be reported to me, the friend entertains guests sent how many gift, go a married woman's parents' home promoted those things, buy the dress how to much cost, what does say to wait in the life, must control freedom, can conceal anything but. Wife should do not have a secret, the cashier can be only at most in the life, the accountant does not want to hold the position of. Did bad thing, want to scold scold, want to hit hit.

4, wife should be lifetime Shou Zhen section is vidual.

Wife should be maiden, there should be one person only in the heart, must not crackpot, more cannot off the rails steal raw meat or fish. With male colleague the speech cannot laugh, maintain a distance even, cannot chat alone, cannot say pornographic word. Remarry forbids after the man dies early, want to defend vivid few, lackey old person, raise the child.

5, without giving thought to,wife should consider husband's family only a married woman's parents' home.

Marry the daughter that go out to sprinkle the water that go out. In the feudal society male honour female low, there are any relations with a married woman's parents' home after the daughter gets married, also did not matter with the family property of a married woman's parents' home, the person that is a married woman's parents' home no longer, marry chicken is married along with chicken the dog follows a dog. Woman from move into one's husband's household upon marriage that momently, with respect to the thing that cannot go providing a married woman's parents' home,

Today 80 hind, 90 hind in, although traditional man is not too much, but old idea still is existing very big impact, proper understanding is abusive principal to building harmony marriage to having port. Person and person interact most the 3 principles “ of at least is equal, esteem, good-tempered, live in husband and wife actually how proper apply be not easy thing, effort is hopeful, cheer! After all the society is in progress, civilization is developing, some things just did not turn temporarily, appreciably thinking is met suddenly see the light.

  夫妻之间常互称“老公、“老婆,含有“相濡以沫、恩爱长久的愿望。现阶段若实现这一愿望,诚心过好日子必须做到:平等,尊重,宽容,理解,共赏五大原则。而一些思想比较传统、守旧的男人对老婆常有五大不讲理的要求。

  一、老婆就应该做饭洗衣带孩子。

  受传统保守思想后遗症的影响,以及大男子主义做祟,“男主外,女主内是天经地义的事情,女性包揽家务的观念在中国人心中有很深的基础。即使看着老婆忙里忙外,自己品茶看报悠闲,并不会觉得有点愧疚,反之心安理得。饭来张口,衣来伸手。

  二、老婆就应该我让干啥就干啥。

  男女都是历史文明的缔造者,然而女人的地位除了母系社会时期以外,一直处于低下。中国古代妇女更是受“三从四德束缚,三从是“未嫁从父,既嫁从夫,夫死从子;四德是“妇德、妇言、妇容、妇工.当前女性地位的确提高了,要求男人上“三从四德也有了新的含义:何为“三从?就是“服从,听从,跟从;“四德?就是“生日要记得,心思要懂得,花钱要舍得,挨打要忍得.但一种根深蒂固影响是潜移默化的,即使表层上有所改良,实质上消亡仍然需要一个漫长的认识过程,现在还是过渡期。老婆是泄欲的工具,家务的机器,都是一种不平等不尊重的表现,如:不考虑对方是否同意,强行要求,月经期也要硬着干等。

  三、老婆就应该什么事情也告诉我。

  老婆做什么事情都得向我汇报,朋友请客送了多少礼,去娘家提了那些东西,买衣服花费多少,生活中谁说什么等,必须控制自由,决不能隐瞒。老婆就应该没有秘密,生活中最多只能是出纳,会计别想担任。做了错事,想骂就骂,想打就打。

  四、老婆就应该是终生守贞节守寡。

  老婆就应该是处女,就应该心里只有一人,不许想入非非,更不能出轨偷腥。与男同事讲话不能大笑,还要保持距离,不能单独聊天,不可说色情话。男人早死后不准改嫁,要守活寡,侍候老人,抚养孩子。

  五、老婆就应该只顾婆家不管娘家。

  嫁出去的女儿泼出去的水。在封建社会男尊女卑,女儿出嫁以后与娘家就没有任何关系了,与娘家的家产也没有关系了,就不再是娘家的人了,嫁鸡随鸡嫁狗随狗。女人从过门的那一刻,就不能去管娘家的事儿,否则吃里爬外。

  在今天80后、90后中,传统的男人虽不太多,但旧思想仍然存在着很大影响,正确认识陋习对于建立和谐婚姻有着重要的意义。人与人交往最起码的三个原则“平等,尊重,宽容,其实在夫妻生活如何得当运用并非易事,努力就有希望,加油!毕竟社会在进步,文明在发展,有些事情只是暂时没有转弯,略微思索就会茅塞顿开。

本文来自投稿,不代表能成情感立场,如若侵权,请联系我们:https://www.163qt.com/wanhuiaiqingmiji/51722.html