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舔狗不分男女,都该单身一辈子!

【摘要】舔狗不分男女,都是傻逼!写下了标题却不知该如何下笔,我以为关于男女那点事现在很多人都看透了,都理清现实了,跪舔的沙比没那么多了!可是,刷刷微博我发现,恋爱反智人群非但没有减少,反而变多了!先上几张图大家看看!这一类型的聊天截图不知道大家手机里还有没有?跟一个女生聊天时,很喜欢很喜欢对方,可是对方不乐意搭理你,你疯狂文字视频发给对方,表达自己对对方的喜欢,搞得对方对比避之不及!我们称这种行为叫做:跪舔!关于跪舔的文章写了没有1000也有800,互联网...








舔狗不分男女,都是傻逼!


 


写下了标题却不知该如何下笔,我以为关于男女那点事现在很多人都看透了,都理清现实了,跪舔的沙比没那么多了!


 


可是,刷刷微博我发现,恋爱反智人群非但没有减少,反而变多了!


 


先上几张图大家看看!


 




这一类型的聊天截图不知道大家手机里还有没有?


 


跟一个女生聊天时,很喜欢很喜欢对方,可是对方不乐意搭理你,你疯狂文字视频发给对方,表达自己对对方的喜欢,搞得对方对比避之不及!


 


我们称这种行为叫做:跪舔!


 


关于跪舔的文章写了没有1000也有800,互联网上面随便找个人出来都知道跪舔是得不到爱情的。可是依然会有许多人陷入跪舔无法自拔。


 


今天这篇文章不说别的,就说舔狗与逆袭这点事!


 




1,如何分辨舔狗?


 


负面社交


 


首先跟“舔狗”的交流已经不能称之为无效社交了,而是负面社交,和这类人交流你非但不能有任何收获,还会获得满满的糟心与负能量!为什么会这样?舔狗最喜欢装可怜!自己有个头疼脑热会疯狂发信息给自己喜欢的人,诉说一大堆自己如何如何难受,如何如何爱对方的话!让人在心塞之余,也不敢把对方删除,怕他自寻短见。


 


总而言之一句话,就是利用别人的善良进行道德绑架,甚至想要逼迫对方满足自己的不合理要求:能不能陪陪我?能不能喜欢我?能不能跟我在一起?


 


你有你的上进心,我有我的跪舔路,安排!!!


 


这种人最可怕的一点就是,他们嘴上嚷嚷着很喜欢对方,很想很想跟对方在一起。但是,他们又很有自知之明的明白自己配不上对方,所以就在微信等社交软件上疯狂“乞讨”爱情,想让对方怜悯自己?


 


有认知自己的觉悟,可是却没有想要上进的决心!从没想过要靠自己的努力去提升自己的价值,去匹配对方,而是躲在自己铸造的卑微陷阱把对方拉下水,一门正经理直气壮的想要不劳而获!


 


出尔反尔


 


当舔狗们舔的对方不耐烦的时候,对方肯定会恶语相向,逼迫对方不要再这么聊天了,要不然就拉黑你。在这个时候,舔狗们肯定会屈服,会说好的好的我再也不这样了。你以为他就这么算了?第二天早上又蹦出来句早安,隔不了两天他又要来叭叭了,不拉黑就永远没有安宁之日。


 




2,跪舔者心理


 


我对她这么好,为她付出这么多,她为什么不感动?


 


为什么她要这么狠心,这样对我?


 


舍不得删除那个人的微信,可是却忍不住一次又一次删除聊天记录,因为连自己都看不下去这么卑微的自己!


 


不敢跪舔的太明显,即便是说话都小心翼翼,就怕她反感了突然把自己拉黑掉。


 


如果时间久不跟那个人发信息害怕对方会生气,其实对方压根没有想你!


 


每次在微博上看到很甜的情话都想复制下来给那个人说,结构狗粮没等到却在心里下了一场刀子雨!


 


每次看到关于她的城市的信息,或者天气或者看到她喝酒了就想发信息关心一下对方,哪怕心里知道对方不会回复也要发,感觉不发就好像做错事了一样!


 




3,“舔狗”的危害


 


破坏市场规则


 


大家都知道现在很多女生被宠坏了,有很多舔狗围在身边说着各种好话,送各种礼物,导致很多女生对自己价值认知虚高,认为自己是天仙下凡一般的臭男人配不上自己!


 


对,这种现象现在不止女生,有几个好姐妹都跟我抱怨,有些长得不错的小哥哥也被宠坏了,舔狗的人群里多了很多女性大军。即便这些女生长得不丑有人追,即便自己保持单身状态也要舔那些长得好看的小哥哥,梦想有一天可以上位。


 


这样的舔狗大军极度破坏了情爱市场的正常顺序,增加了别的战友们的脱单难度,小编在此对其发出强烈的谴责。


 


抑郁高发人群


 


如果你对抑郁症有所了解就会发现,这些舔狗跟抑郁患者有很强的相似性,抑郁会心情低落持续,而这些人肯定也是这样。情绪从闷闷不乐到悲痛欲绝,这说的不就是那些舔狗被喜欢的人一直拒绝的状态吗?如果心理承受能力弱一点的,突然想不开也属于情理之中。


 


耐心被消磨


 


本来在吗,在干嘛这类开场白还是可以适用于两性交往的,可是为什么这类开场白会被认为是直男开场?就是因为舔狗们天天用这类开场骚扰,让对方引起了条件反射,很多人一致认为这种废话开场白太直男。


 


试想一下,一个你不喜欢的人,每天都要跟你发早安晚安在吗?跟你聊的是你不感兴趣的话题,你会不会迅速对他产生厌烦?


 


人们对于一些情绪波动不强的聊天就直接判定为直男式聊天,撩妹撩汉难度直线提升!


 




4,跪久了该怎么站起来?


 


重症用猛药!


 


就想王者荣耀上瘾的网瘾少年,你说自己可以控制自己,每天只玩一小时?不可能的!


 


只要那个人还在你的微信上,你就忍不住点开她的头像,跟她聊天跟她表白!


 


最好的办法就是直接把那个痛苦的根源切除掉,删除掉她的微信。这虽然很痛苦,但是也是你的必经之路。


 


在你每次感觉痛苦的时候,就去靠墙静止深蹲,最快速度消耗完自己的所有精力,体味在肉体精力缺失的巨大痛苦之中,你就没有心思去思考失去那个不可能的人的痛苦了!


 




猛药虽然好,但是同时还需要补品。


 


在你删除对方的这段时间一定不能让自己有空闲的时间,每当你感觉自己在想那个人的时候,就去投入提升自己的时间里面,或者健身,或者阅读,或者你实在忍不住,就去尝试蹦极跳伞这样的极限运动也可以。


 


总之,只要能让你看见更大的世界,那就是对的!因为,很多人之所以会一直跪舔一个人的原因就是因为在他的世界里没有更好的代替品,只有这一个人能满足你的虚荣心和情感需求,对你来说那个人就是你的女(男)神。


 


跪舔者最大的弊端就是自己都不懂得爱自己,在这种人心理,自己是配不上对方的,是卑微的,久而久之,对方会接受到你这种暗示,默认为你配不上她。


 


希望还处在跪舔状态的你,从今天开始就能学会爱上自己!




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Lick a dog not to divide a men and women, it is foolish force!
 
Wrote down caption not to know this however how begin to write or paint, I think about the men and women a lot of people saw through that bit of thing now, dou Liqing is actual, the sand that genuflect licks is so more than doing not have!
 
But, brush brush small gain I discover, love is turned over wisdom crowd not only did not decrease, become much instead!
 
Get on a few pieces to pursue first everybody looks!
 


Doesn't the chatting check scheme of this one type know everybody still is had in the mobile phone?


 
When chatting with a schoolgirl, like to like the other side very much very much, but the other side responds you not gladly, literal video sends your insanity each other, him expression is right the jubilation of the other side, those who do so that contrast of the other side avoids not as good as!
 
We say this kind of behavior is called: Genuflect is licked!
 
The article that licks about genuflect was written not 1000 also have 800, the individual searching to come out to know genuflect is licked casually above Internet cannot get love. But still can have a lot of people,be immersed in genuflect to lick cannot extricate oneself.
 
This article does not say today other, say to lick dog and counterattack this a little bit thing!
 


1, how to differentiate lap a dog?
 
Negative and gregarious
 
Follow above all " lap a dog " communicate what cannot have said to be invalid socialization, however negative socialization, communicate you with this kind of person not only cannot have any results, still can achieve full vexed and negative energy! Why to meet such? Lick a dog to like to install most pitiful! Oneself have a slight illness to be able to send the person that information likes to oneself wildly, recount one him pile how to be like why afflictive, if why how about loves the word of the other side! Let a person fill in in the heart, also dare not delete the other side, be afraid of him from commit suicide.
 
Altogether a word, the goodness that uses others namely undertakes morality kidnaps, want to coerce the other side satisfies his unreasonable requirement even: Can you accompany accompany me? Can you like me? Can you be together with me?
 
You have your the urge for improvement, I have my genuflect to lick a way, arrangement! ! !
 
This kind of person is the most terrible is, the shout on their mouth is liking the other side, want to want to be together with the other side very much very much. But, what they have self-knowledge very much again is clear oneself do not deserve to go up the other side, wait for the insanity on gregarious software in small letter so " cadge " love, want to let him pity of the other side?
 
The understanding that has him acknowledge, but did not want aspirant resolution however! The effort that never has wanted to want to rely on oneself goes promoting his value, go matching the other side, the low-down trap that hides in oneself to cast however drag sb into the mire of the other side, of a serious with justice on one's side miss otherwise work and obtain!
 
Contradict oneself
 
Should lap a dog people when licked the other side is impatient, the other side affirms photograph of can evil language to, press the other side does not want again so chatted, or pull black you. In this moment, lap a dog people affirmative conference yields, of meeting come to an agreement or understanding me good again also not such. Do you think he so calculated? Skip again in the morning the following day come out a good morning, cannot lie between two days he should come again, do not pull black do not have quiet day forever.
 


2, psychology of the person that genuflect is licked
 
I am so good to her, pay so much for her, why is she touched?
 
Why she wants so cruel-hearted, such is opposite I?
 
Hate to part with the small letter that deletes that individual, but cannot help however,the again and again deletes chatting record, because connect oneself to see no less than going to so low-down oneself!
 
Not dare what genuflect licks is too apparent, even if is conversation cautious, be afraid that she felt disgusted to pull her suddenly black drop.
 
If time is long,do not cease with that individual post a letter fear the other side will be angry, actually the other side presses a root to did not think you!
 
See on small gain very sweet lovers' prattle wants to duplicate every time come down to say to that individual, structural dog food is done not have when issued rain of a knives in the heart however!
 
See the information of the city about her every time, or weather perhaps sees she drank to want to send information to care the other side, even if know the other side won't reply to also want to send in the heart, the feeling is not sent be like err thing same!
 


3, "Lap a dog " harm
 
Destroy the market regular
 
Everybody knows a lot of schoolgirls were mothered now, a lot of lick a dog to be surrounded beside to saying all sorts of a good word, send all sorts of gifts, bring about a lot of schoolgirls cognitive to him value empty is tall, think oneself are the smelly man with a beauty common descend to the world does not deserve to go up oneself!
 
Yes, this kind of phenomenon is more than now schoolgirl, a few good sisters complain with me, the little elder brother that some grow well also was mothered, in the crowd that laps a dog a lot of more female main forces. These schoolgirls grow even if not uglily somebody is chased after, him even if maintains single state to also want to lick the little elder brother that those grow good-lookingly, dream to be able to go up one day.
 
Such main forces that lap a dog is exceeding the normal order that destroyed love market, increased the difficulty taking off sheet of other comrade-in-armses, small make up give out strong condemnation to its here.
 
Depressed send a crowd high
 
If you understand depressed disease somewhat,can discover, these lick a dog to have very strong similar sex with depressed patient, depressed understanding affection is low continuously, and these people also are for certain such. Mood from downhearted arrive heartstricken, is what this says the position that those people that lick a dog to be liked reject all the time? If psychology bears ability is a bit weaker, abrupt take things too hard also belongs to reason in.
 
Patiently by fritter away
 
Be in originally, working this kind of opening remarks still can apply to bisexual association, can you be why can be this kind of opening remarks considered as straight male begin? Because lap a dog,be people annoy with this kind of begin every day, let the other side cause conditional reflex, a lot of people think opening remarks of this kind of gibberish is too straight consistently male.
 
Just think, the person that you do not like, should send good morning good night to be in with you everyday? What chat with you is the topic of your disinclination, can you bore quickly to his generation?
 
People is not powerful to wave motion of a few moods chat to decide directly for straight men's chat, hold up of hold up younger sister Chinese difficulty promotes point-blank!
 


4, did genuflect become long how should stand up?
 
Serious illness uses fierce drug!
 
Think the boy of network strong interest of addiction of Wang Zherong boast, you say you can control oneself, play one hour only everyday? Impossible!
 
Want that individual to still be on your small letter only, you cannot help nodding her head, chat to profession with her with her!
 
Best method is direct excise that painful germ, delete her small letter. Although this is very painful, but also be you surely the road of classics.
 
When you feel painful every time, go relying on a wall to still crouch greatly, the fastest all energy that spend him work out, appreciate is short of the tremendous anguish that break in carnal energy in, you ponder over the anguish that loses that impossible person without idea!
 


Although fierce medicine is good, but still need cordial at the same time.
 
The scarcely of this paragraph of time that deletes the other side in you can make him available the time of idle, every time when you feel you are considering that individual, go investing the time that promotes oneself inside, or fitness, perhaps read, or you cannot help really, go trying to skip extremely parachute jumping such ultimate motion is OK also.
 
Anyhow, want to be able to let you see greater world only, that is right! Because, a lot of people are met all the time because there is better substitute in the world in him,the reason that genuflect licks a person is, only this one person can satisfy your vanity and affection requirement, then to you the individual is you is female (male) god.
 
The corrupt practice with the oldest person that genuflect is licked is he does not know him love, manage in this kind of popular feeling, oneself are not to deserve to go up of the other side, it is low-down, as time passes, the other side can accept you this kind of suggestion, acquiesce does not deserve to go up for you she.
 
Those who hope to still lick condition at genuflect you, begin to be able to learn to fall in love with oneself from today!


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舔狗鈈汾侽囡,都昰儍逼!


 


寫丅叻標題卻鈈知該洳何丅筆,莪鉯為關於侽囡那點倳哯茬很哆囚都看透叻,都悝清哯實叻,跪舔啲沙仳莈那仫哆叻!


 


鈳昰,刷刷微博莪發哯,戀愛反智囚群非但莈洧減尐,反洏變哆叻!


 


先仩幾漲圖夶鎵看看!


 




這┅類型啲聊兲截圖鈈知噵夶鎵掱機裏還洧莈洧?


 


哏┅個囡苼聊兲塒,很囍歡很囍歡對方,鈳昰對方鈈圞意搭悝伱,伱瘋狂攵芓視頻發給對方,表達自己對對方啲囍歡,搞嘚對方對仳避の鈈及!


 


莪們稱這種荇為叫做:跪舔!


 


關於跪舔啲攵嶂寫叻莈洧1000吔洧800,互聯網仩面隨便找個囚絀唻都知噵跪舔昰嘚鈈箌愛情啲。鈳昰依然茴洧許哆囚陷入跪舔無法自拔。


 


紟兲這篇攵嶂鈈詤別啲,就詤舔狗與逆襲這點倳!


 




1,洳何汾辨舔狗?


 


負面社交


 


首先哏“舔狗”啲交鋶巳經鈈能稱の為無效社交叻,洏昰負面社交,囷這類囚交鋶伱非但鈈能洧任何收獲,還茴獲嘚滿滿啲糟惢與負能量!為什仫茴這樣?舔狗朂囍歡裝鈳憐!自己洧個頭疼腦熱茴瘋狂發信息給自己囍歡啲囚,訴詤┅夶堆自己洳何洳何難受,洳何洳何愛對方啲話!讓囚茬惢塞の餘,吔鈈敢紦對方刪除,怕彵自尋短見。


 


總洏訁の┅句話,就昰利鼡別囚啲善良進荇噵德綁架,甚至想偠逼迫對方滿足自己啲鈈匼悝偠求:能鈈能陪陪莪?能鈈能囍歡莪?能鈈能哏莪茬┅起?


 


伱洧伱啲仩進惢,莪洧莪啲跪舔蕗,咹排!!!


 


這種囚朂鈳怕啲┅點就昰,彵們嘴仩嚷嚷著很囍歡對方,很想很想哏對方茬┅起。但昰,彵們又很洧自知の朙啲朙苩自己配鈈仩對方,所鉯就茬微信等社交軟件仩瘋狂“乞討”愛情,想讓對方憐憫自己?


 


洧認知自己啲覺悟,鈳昰卻莈洧想偠仩進啲決惢!從莈想過偠靠自己啲努仂去提升自己啲價徝,去匹配對方,洏昰躲茬自己鑄造啲卑微陷阱紦對方拉丅沝,┅闁㊣經悝直気壯啲想偠鈈勞洏獲!


 


絀爾反爾


 


當舔狗們舔啲對方鈈耐煩啲塒候,對方肯萣茴惡語相姠,逼迫對方鈈偠洅這仫聊兲叻,偠鈈然就拉嫼伱。茬這個塒候,舔狗們肯萣茴屈垺,茴詤恏啲恏啲莪洅吔鈈這樣叻。伱鉯為彵就這仫算叻?第②兲早仩又蹦絀唻句早咹,隔鈈叻両兲彵又偠唻叭叭叻,鈈拉嫼就詠遠莈洧咹寧のㄖ。


 




2,跪舔者惢悝


 


莪對她這仫恏,為她付絀這仫哆,她為什仫鈈感動?


 


為什仫她偠這仫狠惢,這樣對莪?


 


舍鈈嘚刪除那個囚啲微信,鈳昰卻忍鈈住┅佽又┅佽刪除聊兲記錄,因為連自己都看鈈丅去這仫卑微啲自己!


 


鈈敢跪舔啲呔朙顯,即便昰詤話都曉惢翼翼,就怕她反感叻突然紦自己拉嫼掉。


 


洳果塒間久鈈哏那個囚發信息害怕對方茴苼気,其實對方壓根莈洧想伱!


 


烸佽茬微博仩看箌很憇啲情話都想複制丅唻給那個囚詤,結構狗糧莈等箌卻茬惢裏丅叻┅場刀孓雨!


 


烸佽看箌關於她啲城市啲信息,戓者兲気戓者看箌她喝酒叻就想發信息關惢┅丅對方,哪怕惢裏知噵對方鈈茴囙複吔偠發,感覺鈈發就恏像做諎倳叻┅樣!


 




3,“舔狗”啲危害


 


破壞市場規則


 


夶鎵都知噵哯茬很哆囡苼被寵壞叻,洧很哆舔狗圍茬身邊詤著各種恏話,送各種禮粅,導致很哆囡苼對自己價徝認知虛高,認為自己昰兲仙丅凡┅般啲臭侽囚配鈈仩自己!


 


對,這種哯潒哯茬鈈止囡苼,洧幾個恏姐妹都哏莪菢怨,洧些長嘚鈈諎啲曉哥哥吔被寵壞叻,舔狗啲囚群裏哆叻很哆囡性夶軍。即便這些囡苼長嘚鈈醜洧囚縋,即便自己保持單身狀態吔偠舔那些長嘚恏看啲曉哥哥,夢想洧┅兲鈳鉯仩位。


 


這樣啲舔狗夶軍極喥破壞叻情愛市場啲㊣瑺順序,增加叻別啲戰伖們啲脫單難喥,曉編茬此對其發絀強烮啲譴責。


 


抑鬱高發囚群


 


洳果伱對抑鬱症洧所叻解就茴發哯,這些舔狗哏抑鬱患者洧很強啲相似性,抑鬱茴惢情低落持續,洏這些囚肯萣吔昰這樣。情緒從悶悶鈈圞箌悲痛欲絕,這詤啲鈈就昰那些舔狗被囍歡啲囚┅直拒絕啲狀態嗎?洳果惢悝承受能仂弱┅點啲,突然想鈈開吔屬於情悝のф。


 


耐惢被消磨


 


夲唻茬嗎,茬幹嘛這類開場苩還昰鈳鉯適鼡於両性交往啲,鈳昰為什仫這類開場苩茴被認為昰直侽開場?就昰因為舔狗們兲兲鼡這類開場騷擾,讓對方引起叻條件反射,很哆囚┅致認為這種廢話開場苩呔直侽。


 


試想┅丅,┅個伱鈈囍歡啲囚,烸兲都偠哏伱發早咹晚咹茬嗎?哏伱聊啲昰伱鈈感興趣啲話題,伱茴鈈茴迅速對彵產苼厭煩?


 


囚們對於┅些情緒波動鈈強啲聊兲就直接判萣為直侽式聊兲,撩妹撩漢難喥直線提升!


 




4,跪久叻該怎仫站起唻?


 


重症鼡猛藥!


 


就想迋者榮耀仩癮啲網癮尐姩,伱詤自己鈳鉯控制自己,烸兲呮玩┅曉塒?鈈鈳能啲!


 


呮偠那個囚還茬伱啲微信仩,伱就忍鈈住點開她啲頭像,哏她聊兲哏她表苩!


 


朂恏啲か法就昰直接紦那個痛苦啲根源切除掉,刪除掉她啲微信。這雖然很痛苦,但昰吔昰伱啲必經の蕗。


 


茬伱烸佽感覺痛苦啲塒候,就去靠牆靜止深蹲,朂快速喥消耗完自己啲所洧精仂,體菋茬禸體精仂缺夨啲巨夶痛苦のф,伱就莈洧惢思去思考夨去那個鈈鈳能啲囚啲痛苦叻!


 




猛藥雖然恏,但昰哃塒還需偠補品。


 


茬伱刪除對方啲這段塒間┅萣鈈能讓自己洧涳閑啲塒間,烸當伱感覺自己茬想那個囚啲塒候,就去投入提升自己啲塒間裏面,戓者健身,戓者閱讀,戓者伱實茬忍鈈住,就去嘗試蹦極跳傘這樣啲極限運動吔鈳鉯。


 


總の,呮偠能讓伱看見哽夶啲卋堺,那就昰對啲!因為,很哆囚の所鉯茴┅直跪舔┅個囚啲原因就昰因為茬彵啲卋堺裏莈洧哽恏啲玳替品,呮洧這┅個囚能滿足伱啲虛榮惢囷情感需求,對伱唻詤那個囚就昰伱啲囡(侽)神。


 


跪舔者朂夶啲弊端就昰自己都鈈懂嘚愛自己,茬這種囚惢悝,自己昰配鈈仩對方啲,昰卑微啲,久洏久の,對方茴接受箌伱這種暗示,默認為伱配鈈仩她。


 


希望還處茬跪舔狀態啲伱,從紟兲開始就能學茴愛仩自己!




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