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幸福婚姻不可或缺的宝贝

【摘要】托尔斯泰说过“幸福的家庭都是一样的,不幸的家庭却各有各的不幸.在中国,幸福的家庭的共性就是,拥有以下的东西。1.童心其实只有童心未眠,青春才会永驻,爱情才可历久弥新,所以最好能多保留一点天真、单纯、多拥有一点爱好、好奇心。在外面尽管当“正人君子,可回到家,大门一关就最好当个大孩子。2.浪漫不少中国家庭太注重实际而缺少浪漫。不要以为浪漫无边就是献花、跳舞,不要以为没有时间、没有钱就不能浪漫。要知道,浪漫的形式是丰富多彩的、多种多样的。3.幽默说话幽默能化解、缓冲矛盾和纠纷,消除尴尬和隔阂,增加情趣与情感,让一家人乐融融。4.亲昵许多夫妻视经常亲昵为黏黏糊糊,解释“不当众亲昵是不轻浮的表现。但专家研究发现,亲昵对提高家庭生活质量有着妙不可言的作用,而长期缺少拥抱、亲吻的人容易产生“肌肤...

  托尔斯泰说过“幸福的家庭都是一样的,不幸的家庭却各有各的不幸.在中国,幸福的家庭的共性就是,拥有以下的东西。

  1.童心

  其实只有童心未眠,青春才会永驻,爱情才可历久弥新,所以最好能多保留一点天真、单纯、多拥有一点爱好、好奇心。在外面尽管当“正人君子,可回到家,大门一关就最好当个大孩子。

  2.浪漫

  不少中国家庭太注重实际而缺少浪漫。不要以为浪漫无边就是献花、跳舞,不要以为没有时间、没有钱就不能浪漫。要知道,浪漫的形式是丰富多彩的、多种多样的。

  3.幽默

  说话幽默能化解、缓冲矛盾和纠纷,消除尴尬和隔阂,增加情趣与情感,让一家人乐融融。

  4.亲昵

  许多夫妻视经常亲昵为黏黏糊糊,解释“不当众亲昵是不轻浮的表现。但专家研究发现,亲昵对提高家庭生活质量有着妙不可言的作用,而长期缺少拥抱、亲吻的人容易产生“肌肤饥饿,进而产生情感饥饿。

  5.情话

  心理学家认为∶配偶之间每天至少得向对方说三句以上充满感情的情话,如“我爱你、“我喜欢你的某某.然而,不少国人太过注意含蓄,很少把爱挂在嘴边,以为这样是浅薄、令人肉麻。不少中国夫妻更是希望配偶把爱体现在细致、体贴的关心上。这固然没错,但是如果只有行动,没有情话,会不会给人以“只有主菜,没有佐料的缺陷感呢?

  6.沟通

  不少中国夫妻把意见、不快压抑在心理,不挑明,还美其名曰“脾气好,有修养.其实,相互闭锁,只能导致误会加深,长期压抑等于恶性能量,一旦爆发,破坏性更大。正常的做法应该是加强沟通,有意见、不快应该诚恳、温和、讲究策略地说出来,并经常主动地了解对方的想法。吵架也不一定是坏事,毕竟它也是一种沟通的手段,只是应该就事论事,别进行人身攻击。

  7.欣赏

  人们经常用欣赏的眼光看自己的孩子,所以总觉得“孩子是自己的最好;又因为常用挑剔的眼光看配偶,所以总认为老婆(丈夫)是别人的好。用不同的眼光去评价同一件事,结论会大相径庭。如果你不假思索就能数出配偶的许多缺点,那么你多半缺少欣赏的眼光。如果你当面、背后都只说配偶的优点,那么,你就等于学会了爱,并能收获到爱。

The family that Tuoersitai has said “ is happy is same, wretched family has each misfortune each however. Be in China, the general character of happy family is, have the following thing.

1. Childishness

Have childishness only actually not Mian, green ability always can is stationed in, love just but experience is long cover is new, best can much reservation is innocent, pure, so much have a bit hobby, curiosity. Outside although a man of honor when “ , can return the home, the gate closes to had better become a big child.

2. Romantic

Many Chinese families are paid attention to too actual and lack romance. Do not feel romantic to immensity presents a flower namely, dance, do not think without time, without money cannot romantic. Want to know, romantic form is rich and colorful, varied.

3. Humorous

Talking humour can be dissolved, amortize contradiction and dispute, remove awkwardness and barrier, increase appeal and affection, make a family happy happy and harmonious.

4. Intimate

A lot of husband and wife are inspected often intimate paper for sticky sticky, explanatory “ is undeserved numerous intimate it is not light show. But the expert considers to discover, intimate wonderful to raising domesticity quality to having action, and the person that lacks hug, kiss for a long time produces “ skin hunger easily, produce affection hunger then.

5. Lovers' prattle

Psychologist thinks that he must say to the other side 3 above are full of emotive lovers' prattle at least everyday between ∶ spouse, like “ I love you, I like “ your such-and-such. However, many compatriots too notice reservation too, hang love in mouth edge rarely, thinking is dilettante so, your person is disgusting. Many Chinese husband and wife hope the spouse reflects love on meticulous, considerate care more. This is admittedly right, but if act only, without lovers' prattle, can have entree only with “ to the person, does the blemish that there is spice feel?

6. Communicate

Many Chinese husband and wife depress opinion, discomfort in psychology, do not carry bright, it is good to return disposition of “ of call it by a good name of, cultured. Actually, mutual closedown, can bring about misunderstanding to deepen only, long-term depression is equal to malign energy, once erupt, ruinous bigger. Regular method should be to strengthen communicate, opinion, discomfort speaks out exquisite and should cordially, blandly, politicly, often know the think of a way of the other side actively. Quarrelling also is not evildoing certainly, after all it also is a kind of communication method, just should consider sth as it stands, do not have assault and battery.

7. Appreciation

People looks his child via the eye of commonly used appreciation, the best; that always feels “ child is him so sees a spouse because of commonly used and captious eye again, always think so wife (the husband) be others is good. Go evaluating with different eye same a thing, conclusion can be widely divergent. If your truly ponders to be able to count a lot of defect of a spouse, so the vision that you lack appreciation likely. If you are present, the good point that says a spouse only rear, so, you are equal to learned to love, can harvest love.

  托尔斯泰说过“幸福的家庭都是一样的,不幸的家庭却各有各的不幸.在中国,幸福的家庭的共性就是,拥有以下的东西。

  1.童心

  其实只有童心未眠,青春才会永驻,爱情才可历久弥新,所以最好能多保留一点天真、单纯、多拥有一点爱好、好奇心。在外面尽管当“正人君子,可回到家,大门一关就最好当个大孩子。

  2.浪漫

  不少中国家庭太注重实际而缺少浪漫。不要以为浪漫无边就是献花、跳舞,不要以为没有时间、没有钱就不能浪漫。要知道,浪漫的形式是丰富多彩的、多种多样的。

  3.幽默

  说话幽默能化解、缓冲矛盾和纠纷,消除尴尬和隔阂,增加情趣与情感,让一家人乐融融。

  4.亲昵

  许多夫妻视经常亲昵为黏黏糊糊,解释“不当众亲昵是不轻浮的表现。但专家研究发现,亲昵对提高家庭生活质量有着妙不可言的作用,而长期缺少拥抱、亲吻的人容易产生“肌肤饥饿,进而产生情感饥饿。

  5.情话

  心理学家认为∶配偶之间每天至少得向对方说三句以上充满感情的情话,如“我爱你、“我喜欢你的某某.然而,不少国人太过注意含蓄,很少把爱挂在嘴边,以为这样是浅薄、令人肉麻。不少中国夫妻更是希望配偶把爱体现在细致、体贴的关心上。这固然没错,但是如果只有行动,没有情话,会不会给人以“只有主菜,没有佐料的缺陷感呢?

  6.沟通

  不少中国夫妻把意见、不快压抑在心理,不挑明,还美其名曰“脾气好,有修养.其实,相互闭锁,只能导致误会加深,长期压抑等于恶性能量,一旦爆发,破坏性更大。正常的做法应该是加强沟通,有意见、不快应该诚恳、温和、讲究策略地说出来,并经常主动地了解对方的想法。吵架也不一定是坏事,毕竟它也是一种沟通的手段,只是应该就事论事,别进行人身攻击。

  7.欣赏

  人们经常用欣赏的眼光看自己的孩子,所以总觉得“孩子是自己的最好;又因为常用挑剔的眼光看配偶,所以总认为老婆(丈夫)是别人的好。用不同的眼光去评价同一件事,结论会大相径庭。如果你不假思索就能数出配偶的许多缺点,那么你多半缺少欣赏的眼光。如果你当面、背后都只说配偶的优点,那么,你就等于学会了爱,并能收获到爱。

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