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It is very important that with an eye shot open person talks love
Article of article ｜ Yang Xi
Lose the friend with old contact, appear on QQ, situation shows in Australia, I in screen this end exclamations, see the exclamation mark that that one aspect of the matter sends continuously. Two playmate of ten years old of acquaintance, grow to approach the wife of 3 now, expenditure drops almost daylong time, just make up for on the extract that after breaking couplet, lives severally. We scream to also weep in the excitement in each other story sigh, she casts suddenly come the leer of be ashamed of a charming: "Want not to think the feeling that a few years this listens to me is experienced? " I nod, send her the expression of a the Eight Diagrams.
The first paragraph of amour happening of the friend is in campus, in those days she is 20 years old. Two major the youth of different major, in self-study room Li Qian lets a seat, "Because be in the crowd,just saw you more " , each other maintain this is a paragraph of predeterminate the fate brings lovers together.
Campus amour does not need the element with complex what, the company with self-study shoulder to shoulder room, dinner is shared in the dining room, the good night short message in the late night, the hand pulls driveway of hand ground make friends on the weekend, enough makes a paragraph of simple love.
But, gradually, the friend discovers on boy friend body a few bizarre behavior. For instance, to had reduced weight when oneself midday is not fed must cluck in hunger of self-study room abdomen in the evening when cluck cries, the boy friend can pull her in the dining room to call a big top to irrigate a meal forcibly. At first friend is touched very, see the boy friend is in however settle accounts when regressive one pace, see her turn over meal card hurriedly in the bag at the same time, explain with dining room aunt at the same time: "Not be to give what I eat... " for instance, after dining together with brother every time, the boy friend wants to tell feeling pleasedly with her: "Really good, it is Xx is grabbing bought sheet... " when laying even two people eating house to improve food together even, the boy friend does not forget to remind her: "Be being answered on is the Zhang that I written guarantee, this... "
Having absolutely discretion besides the purse to oneself, the boy friend also is having in the life obstinate and extreme view.
See every time the schoolboy is leaving to run quickly when BMW appears in campus, maintain " it is gens spelling dad absolutely " , hear the schoolgirl gets in renown look forward to an exercitation works to make wild guesses " certainly dry dad photograph is aided " , at the same time also often oneself this ordinary extraction regards as the excuse of a certain number of failure: "Do not have method, also can be the poor's life only hard again! Also can be the poor's life only hard again!!
But after these can not prevent a friend to choose graduating, stay in with him same the city struggles, she believes love can overcome all limitation, can live together the life brought tremendous change very quickly to her. The friend goes regularly no longer the bookshop buys magazine and novel, because the boy friend says: "The book is so expensive, is looking on the net same? Is looking on the net same??
She also kept rich customer of 3 years newlier on the net no longer, because the boy friend looked twice to lose interest: "You who does the article of those make a fuss about an imaginary illness have to you can look? ! " she suggests to go on the weekend no longer the cinema sees 3D is big, expect to plan a trip for New year holidays no longer, the novel that cares which literary youth no longer sells in heat, be attended no longer even and boudoir is sweet people once a week afternoon tea, however complete be in harmony takes mediocre and unambitious crowd in, absorption do a girl that cares a day of 3 eat and life bagatelle only.
After graduating two years, the friend goes attending classmate party, surprisingly discovery in former days in be blamed by oneself vulgar schoolboy, combined a film with iron tower of dust humble Er, listening to the new book that there is a certain writer between the schoolgirl and column, she this in those days the talented woman is opposite unexpectedly this utterly ignorant.
The somebody on table is talked about that evening dish is, somebody talks about foreign experience, somebody discussion invests conduct financial transactions, somebody asks her: "Be in two this years busy what? " her forced smile, not know what is said, to the crab look on in despair before.
After the friend comes home turn over bank card silently, 20 thousand are his total saving, she sealed up for keeping the viatic dream of for a long time is in inmost ready to do sth, choose the boy friend before TV: "We go travelling, go southeast Asia, it is OK also to swim thoroughly experience this next one worlds! " her boy friend has rolled a head, push spectacles, ground of speak with justice says: "I am sorry, I still prefer the girl that sureness gets along. I still prefer the girl that sureness gets along..
Friend flower clears away baggage night, fill in each thing that concerns with oneself in the rented house into ash-bin. She breaks connection with past behead thoroughly, delete a boy friend all contact means, demit drops that job that does not have preferment opportunity forever, grasp a piece of 20 thousand bank card, the interval that thinks him supply is late year.
But dream to always come romance is simply than reality, begin to be truly when her all the year round when the journey makes a plan, discover oneself are done not have so however so brave, all sorts of never place in via the problem of the hand at the moment, go does home swims or abroad swim? Does abroad swim how does visa do? Go which country? Won't say how the foreign language goes? If did 20 thousand flowers become smooth this how subsist? Can be the job still found after coming back?
The friend faces one caboodle problem to be without main threads of an affair, happen to sees village doorway is being stuck on the weekend the advertisement of English study class, one heat signed up brains, did not think of to encounter below one paragraph of love over. This schoolboy, it is a kind that when be thrown into person caboodle to break up not to come out, appearance is really ordinary, but become him to regard young English as the teacher, when standing on dais to share oneself life article of creed or faith to the classmate, it is so glamour extraordinary.
The friend sent an expression of guffaw: "That is I realize for the first time, the heart of a man, can make up for appearance all hard injuries. Can make up for appearance all hard injuries..
The classmate on the class comes from socially all trades and professions, age difference wide gap, be conquered by young teacher's capacious intellectual face place however, the class hour of two hour often should be lengthened whole in the morning. This humorous and humor man, ferial in the interpreter is done in a company, become English teacher to class of take lessons after school on the weekend, life experience is capacious and rich, mix in Tibet herdsman is equestrian, in India contemplative pass 7 days, fruit is picked in Australian orchard, build a car to travel all the way all the way in Germany...
He introduces the film and book for the classmate of English of begin to learn, his rented house is become read meeting and the fixed place that the film meets. Friend first time goes in the cell that the schoolboy hires, be collected books bulkily to measure by him astonished, she an one this locality takes aim in the past, of at all times and in all over the world classical, thick photography magazine, guidebook...
This is not an ample room, but although the space is narrow however everywhere clean and neat, full journey photograph and life plan are stuck on wall, there is delicate and charming young mum on the desktop... that momently, she falls in love with him, because his life is her dream.
They are together later, the life has the surprise that have not has experienced everywhere.
The friend says: "It is he helps me little weighs model the enthusiasm in the life and dream. Two people are not rich as before, but still can take out one part to buy a book regularly from income, book review is written together after coming home, although also can be in the home to see a movie for be economical, but the film or else that look is what booking office is big, however classic old movie. I restored rich settle or live in a strange place, he is helping a sieve single out good article contribute to give a press, still can get now and then come the income with small brushstroke.
Later, he suggests I forget interval year idea, go seeking an own job, write for a magazine is written when leisure child, rise extra income save money, we use such brushstroke pens the money of many a little makes a mickle, had taken a lot of place, and because work hard,become me, eventually save money became enough the fund with small brushstroke, and also need not let me be anxious to magazine company write for a magazine regularly when losing source of income, the interval that I just began me year... "
I special envy friend is itinerary the experience of each country, can't help asking her: "Be the Australia that this English teacher takes you to go? You present life is certain special happiness! " the friend replies: "I am to go out alone of the journey, we were not together early! " silent how much, say: "But he stays to me the influence of a lot of a lot of fronts, still developing effectiveness all the time. Still developing effectiveness all the time..
The friend tells me meticulously in the her love story on the net, sound however more appreciate like the ego that is the happiness in love process.
I remember when reading, she is suddenly how cowardly and those who do not have an idea is small the girl, everybody is in let one's thought flow freely become " VIP " when, she is indecisive in reality however, the dream with life-giving it doesn't matter and aspiration. And nowadays in those days together the little girl of amuse oneself marries a person mostly Fu passes on flat life, she is become however such one dares to enter the girl that swing alone. Such change experienced scene of 10 years, the person often says time can change a person, change a person actually, it is the various love that we encounter in days probably.
You encounter the love of stricture of a paragraph of horizon, if decline,enter the deep well that can treat in the end to carry a sky on the head only in, and the love that you harvest a paragraph of eye shot to widen, it offerred a pair of wing for you, let you fly off the desolation of the bottom of a well.
On psychology, a kind of effect cries " chameleon effect " , those who say is we imitate others very easily, the more close person, we are imitated more easily, imitate each other between husband and wife, behavioral expression and temperament also are met more and more similar.
We often can envy a pair of admiring sweethearts similar on appearance, unexpectedly as out a family, however often oversight, each other regard as the most important life associate in a paragraph of love, respective importunate viewpoint of value also meets sweethearts place tend gradually consistent. One the individual's words and deeds, thinking, horizon, idea, metropolis with lone when having vast difference.
This namely why we are looked at beside the friend after love exclamations, day, he / how did she resemble changing a person? ! Love can transform a person, also enough finish a person.
The male friend of the associate with when I read, had experienced old single life, pull a hand eventually a fine-looking girl. He gives me girl introduction, I add her to be a good friend on facial book, see Man Bing's negative news however.
The schoolgirl feels from personal English bad determination tries hard to learn, say however " very tired ah I should sleep, did not learn " ; The girl reduce weight regard as sole cause, publish again and again " discover I am really satiate do not have a thing to do, should eat every time fat decrease again " ; Sometimes the girl also can be without her small disposition cloak ground shows go up in the network, "You me disgusting arrived, also do not phone you again, enraged me dead " .
When chatting with the schoolboy later, his him respecting goes no longer pedestrian with the journey, because the girlfriend says, just do not want a suit smelly sweat, bask in the skin dark; Also go no longer museum sees all sorts of large exhibitions, because the girlfriend complains, too dull, be inferior to seeing teleplay in the home. He says very dejected recently, want to apply for immigrant, can study data alone only, the girl does not give help completely however on, both neither is met English, also get a technical ability without be used to, these all white whiteness spends year of time that is in abroad. I in the phone this is carried not language, it is parting that his stand in silent tribute deeply.
Feierbaha says, love even if make a person. But I think, Good love just can make a person, bad love, your person becomes fatheaded from acumen, cong Yong dare become obsequious, from become actively degenerate, even a person becomes finish of better existence go qualitative.
Scientific report shows related, love is a series of chemical reaction in the body actually, it is these chemical reaction let us often love cannot extricate oneself, disregard him / she is hero or local tyrant, be not her to be not married or be not him to be not married. But be in much cling to when amine produces effect, give oneself sufficient reason please, go judging this individual before, it is one likes the person that the nest sees daylong TV on the sofa in the home on the weekend after all, still be full of curiosity to strange thing, be willing to explore the person of life together with you?
Life is endless Xiu Lian, the spouse is the most important companion and adviser. With an eye shot open person is together, the meeting in life has a lot of wonderful discovery, and if right now you fail to have such love, also fasten rapid move to swing that individual beside, each paragraphs of love is respectable, at least the opportunity of the person that you still have a choice to become an eye shot to widen.
Life is too brief, beard loving each other is careful.
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